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Roo's Mom
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Jan 30, 2018 at 19:24
• Cheryl
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My Roo has been gone for about 2 months now and most of the tine, I smile at my memories of him. But today is somehow different and I don't know why, but my tears are flowing.  Missing my boy SO much. I just want to touch him and hold him in my arns. The grief is almost as bad as the day he went away. 


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Deb, Emmie and Angel Kelsie
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Jan 30, 2018 at 20:00
• Deborah
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Oh Cheryl, I know the feeling. Something is triggering your tears even if you can't put your finger on it. I'm sure Roo is looking down and wishing he could comfort you right now. Think of all those good memories you have of him and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Deb, Emmie, and Angel Kelsie

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Roo's Mom
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Jan 30, 2018 at 20:51
• Cheryl
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Yeah, I don't know what is triggering it, but it has hit me so hard today.. Just when I thought I was handling it so well. I am such a mess tonight. My boy..I just miss him so much..his look
, his unique smell, his crazy sense of humor, his zest for life. So many things. His spirit is still here. I feel it, but don't know how to reach it.

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robin and presley
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Jan 30, 2018 at 22:16
• Sandi
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I did the same thing when  buster was gone, I had robin but I missed  him so much sometimes I swore that I heard his tags jiggling  I would go look for him I know that  he  wasn't there but  I had to look anyway


its gets better as time goes on, but to this day I still miss my little buster.



sandi robin Presley and buster at the bridge


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Riley
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Jan 31, 2018 at 07:17
• allen
(New Jersey)

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There are still days when I sit on my couch and cry over the loss of my dear boys Boomer and Sir William.
They are so embedded in our lives and will always be there even when they are gone.
Use the sad days to know how  much you loved them and how much the loved you.

Love Allen and Riley

Boomer and Sir William at the bridge.

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Caesar Latham and Murphy
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Jan 31, 2018 at 12:27
• Louise
(Illinois)

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I still miss my Murphy and it has been 3 years.  He was such a special boy.  Having Judah helps but I will always miss my Murphy.  Louise, Caesar, Judah and Angel Murphy

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NimbySue
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Feb 01, 2018 at 03:33
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I know that feeling well Cheryl,sorry tried to post yesterday but line down here till this morning...even now I get moments at any time and just want to cty as I miss all mine ,each individual one gets to me at some point..the latest was only a few weeks ago and just overwhelming missing Dear Ellie and Emma...I guess the grief and loss will always be with us until we ourselves leave for the Bridge and hold them all once again...Thinking of you..Hugs Annie and Gang xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Levi,Winter and angel Moshe
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Feb 01, 2018 at 11:13
• Yoka
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Some days are like that Cheryl but with time itdoes become easier to cry less. It takes time Cheryl even if you know it takes a long time the grief.
I often look at pictures of Moshe and that seems to help some! As soon as you have a new pup the hurt gets a little better.
Love,Yoka,Levi and Winter.
Xxxxxxxx

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Sandra & MoppyLocks
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Feb 01, 2018 at 14:48
• Sandra
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Awww Cheryl I'm sorry. I can relate as many of us do. The grief can have you in tears so many days. Even with time I still have days where I will weep for my Maddie Willie and Emily.I made a book of pictures of my clan and have it on my table. It comforts me to pick it up and look at all the wonderful memories we got to share together.

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Willie
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Feb 02, 2018 at 15:09
• Theo
(Ontario, Canada)

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Sorry to hear you were having a very rough day Cheryl. I had days like that over Casey and now, after 3 1/2 years I still miss him terribly and occasionally get pretty weld up with emotion. 

I think most of us have days when we just wish we could hold them one more time, no matter how long they've been gone, and not just the last one to go but all of them. I still miss Max and so wish I could have one more cuddle session with him, even though he's been gone for 16 years, same with Sara, Cedric and Lance too, all wonderful pals of mine that are all at the Bridge. 

I'm sure Roo has been telling them about all the TC happenings since they have been gone. And about the new puppy that will come to help heal your heart too.

Sending hugs, Theo and Willie xox

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